CLIENT GUIDE

First impressions matter!

Manners can make or break a potential meeting. It’s extremely difficult to recover from a bad first impression and many ladies will dismiss you as a time waster and possibly blacklist you. Even if a booking is made, some of the “Don’ts” may cause her to rethink and cancel the date.

DO:

• First and foremost, above all else, make sure you have THOROUGHLY read all the information on her ad and/or website. Not reading is the biggest source of frustration for providers all over the world because it leads to wasted time and issues during booking or during your date if you violate clearly stated rules and boundaries. I can’t stress the importance of this enough.

• Be intentional. This means taking your time and not letting the “little head” do the thinking for you. Jumping straight to contact without thinking things through, reading her website and being prepared will never yield good results.

• Use complete sentences with capitalization and punctuation. A little effort goes a long way! Hey, hi, u avail, hey bb, etc. will usually be ignored because that’s not the way a good client makes contact.

• Remember that she’s a professional, not a random booty call, so communicate in a professional manner. Always give a greeting and tell her who you are. If she accepts bookings via text or email, make sure to include the day and time you want to meet, incall or outcall and screening information to make the process go smoothly.

• Address her by her name – not baby, sexy, hun, etc.

• Respect her policies and don’t ask to be the exception because this makes you look like a boundary pusher. Our rules exist for a reason and a big part of the screening process is looking at how well a potential client cooperates and respects our rules. If you’re not comfortable with a companion’s screening methods, deposit policy – or anything else for that matter – just move along and find someone better suited to your needs.

• If you want to pay a compliment tell her she’s beautiful, you love her photos or compliment her on a particularly interesting social media post. I think you get the idea. I’m flattered that you think my ass is smokin’ hot but that kind of talk makes a bad first impression. There will be plenty of time for naughty talk later.

DON’T:

• Sending sexually suggestive, lewd or explicit messages is a huge no-no. This is a great way to get ignored as well as get in legal trouble.

• Don’t ask questions that are clearly answered on her ad or website. It gives the impression that you’re careless and lazy. If you need clarification on something it’s fine to ask, but in that situation but be sure to tell her that you read the information.

• Asking for things that are not offered is a waste of your time and hers. For example, if a provider doesn’t list rates under 1 HR don’t contact her and ask “How much for 30 minutes?”. If you enjoy being dominated or have a specific fetish, seek out providers who advertise BDSM sessions or say that they cater to fetishes. There are plenty of options out there!

• Don’t ask for additional photos, especially if she has a professional website, multiple ads and strong social media presence. She’s going to think you’re a picture collector and decline to see you.

• Don’t text or call late at night unless her ad or website explicitly states that she’s available at late hours. A good rule of thumb is 9-10 p.m. but of course, read her ad or website first to see if she lists working hours and contact her during those hours. Remember, we’re regular people and the majority of us are asleep late at night.

• Don’t ask for last minute appointments. Contrary to what some might think, we don’t spend our days lying around in full make-up and lingerie just waiting by the phone. If her ad or web site says she needs a certain amount of notice there’s a reason for that. Preparing for a date takes time and I’m sure you want her to look and feel her best when you meet.

• Don’t argue or beg if she declines to see you for whatever reason. Being pushy is a huge red flag and we certainly don’t want to be alone with a man who can’t take no for an answer. Simply thank her for her time and move on. Getting angry, making threats or becoming verbally abuse will ensure that you get blacklisted immediately, making it extremely difficult for you to get a date with other providers.